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Asia
2008 |
Landmark Forum in Hong Kong, China
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Breakthrough Results When I did the Landmark Forum, I invited my father to the Tuesday Evening Session. It was a big deal for me because I realized that this was the first time in a long time that I have ever invited him to anything. At the Landmark Forum, I got to see that I have been silent and resentful against my parents for the loss of wealth in our family. Even though my father provided for me all my life, I noticed that I still had the sullen resentment - like that of a disappointed teenager. I sat with my father during the break and told him what I saw. I told him how I have been withdrawn in our relationships and that I didn't want to be that way with my family anymore. I apologized to him between sobs. He looked at me, tears in his eyes and told me I was a man. He also hit me for making him cry. I got to see loud and clear from doing the Landmark Forum that I avoided responsibility in my life. I saw how passive I was with my work, my friends and my relationships. From seeing this, I created new possibilities with those in my life. Now my father told me about his business plans and I contributed to him by listening and discussing things with him. Recently I got engaged to a wonderful woman, someone who supposedly was to leave Hong Kong shortly after I met her! I had also transformed my previous relationship with my ex-girlfriend, such that now I feel comfortable communicating with her again. What I learnt from the Landmark Forum gave me more than just a sense of relief in completing issues I had in the past. It gave me a sense of freedom to create something new and exciting for myself and for my loved ones.
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Keon
Lee
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December 2, 2004
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